right-size memory requests to unblock GPU workloads and fix dbaas quota [ci skip]

- nvidia: custom LimitRange (128Mi default, was 1Gi from Kyverno) to stop
  inflating GPU operator init containers; saves ~2.5Gi on GPU node
- nvidia: dcgm-exporter 1536Mi → 768Mi (actual usage 489Mi)
- monitoring: prometheus server 4Gi → 3Gi (actual usage 2.6Gi)
- onlyoffice: 2304Mi → 1536Mi (actual usage 1.3Gi)
- immich: frame explicit 64Mi resources (was getting 1Gi LimitRange default)
- dbaas: quota limits.memory 20Gi → 24Gi to fit 3rd MySQL replica

Root cause: Kyverno tier-2-gpu LimitRange injected 1Gi on every NVIDIA init
container (no explicit resources), wasting ~2.5Gi scheduling overhead on the
GPU node. Combined with over-requesting, frigate and immich-ml couldn't schedule.

stacks/dbaas/modules/dbaas/main.tf

@@ -35,8 +35,8 @@ resource "kubernetes_resource_quota" "dbaas" {
   spec {
     hard = {
       "requests.cpu"    = "8"
-      "requests.memory" = "20Gi"
-      "limits.memory"   = "20Gi"
+      "requests.memory" = "24Gi"
+      "limits.memory"   = "24Gi"
       pods              = "30"
     }
   }