right-size memory requests to unblock GPU workloads and fix dbaas quota [ci skip]

- nvidia: custom LimitRange (128Mi default, was 1Gi from Kyverno) to stop
  inflating GPU operator init containers; saves ~2.5Gi on GPU node
- nvidia: dcgm-exporter 1536Mi → 768Mi (actual usage 489Mi)
- monitoring: prometheus server 4Gi → 3Gi (actual usage 2.6Gi)
- onlyoffice: 2304Mi → 1536Mi (actual usage 1.3Gi)
- immich: frame explicit 64Mi resources (was getting 1Gi LimitRange default)
- dbaas: quota limits.memory 20Gi → 24Gi to fit 3rd MySQL replica

Root cause: Kyverno tier-2-gpu LimitRange injected 1Gi on every NVIDIA init
container (no explicit resources), wasting ~2.5Gi scheduling overhead on the
GPU node. Combined with over-requesting, frigate and immich-ml couldn't schedule.

stacks/immich/frame.tf

@@ -66,6 +66,15 @@ resource "kubernetes_deployment" "immich-frame" {
         container {
           image = "ghcr.io/immichframe/immichframe:latest"
           name  = "immich-frame"
+          resources {
+            requests = {
+              cpu    = "10m"
+              memory = "64Mi"
+            }
+            limits = {
+              memory = "128Mi"
+            }
+          }
           port {
             container_port = 8080
             protocol       = "TCP"