add critical instruction to update docs with every infra change [ci skip]

.claude/CLAUDE.md

@@ -34,6 +34,7 @@ Violations cause state drift, which causes future applies to break or silently r
 - **LinuxServer.io containers**: `DOCKER_MODS` runs apt-get on every start — bake slow mods into a custom image (`RUN /docker-mods || true` then `ENV DOCKER_MODS=`). Set `NO_CHOWN=true` to skip recursive chown that hangs on NFS mounts.
 - **Node memory changes**: When changing VM memory on any k8s node, update kubelet `systemReserved`, `kubeReserved`, and eviction thresholds accordingly. Config: `/var/lib/kubelet/config.yaml`. Template: `stacks/infra/main.tf`. Current values: systemReserved=512Mi, kubeReserved=512Mi, evictionHard=500Mi, evictionSoft=1Gi.
 - **Sealed Secrets**: User-managed secrets go in `sealed-*.yaml` files in the stack directory. Stacks pick them up via `kubernetes_manifest` + `fileset(path.module, "sealed-*.yaml")`. See AGENTS.md for full workflow.
+- **CRITICAL — Update docs with every change**: When modifying infrastructure (Terraform, Vault, networking, storage, CI/CD, monitoring), you MUST update all affected documentation in the same commit. Check and update: `docs/architecture/*.md`, `docs/runbooks/*.md`, `.claude/CLAUDE.md`, `AGENTS.md`, `.claude/reference/service-catalog.md`. Stale docs cause incident response failures and onboarding confusion. If unsure which docs are affected, grep for the service/resource name across all doc files.
 
 ## Terraform State — SOPS-Encrypted in Git
 - **State is local** (`backend "local"`), encrypted with SOPS and committed as `.tfstate.enc` files.