The `external-monitor-sync` script is opt-IN by default for any
*.viktorbarzin.me ingress, so a missing annotation means "monitored."
Both ingress factories previously OMITTED the annotation when
`external_monitor = false`, which silently left monitors in place.
Fix: when the caller sets `external_monitor = false` explicitly, emit
`uptime.viktorbarzin.me/external-monitor = "false"` so the sync script
deletes the monitor. Keep the previous behavior (no annotation) for
callers that leave external_monitor null — otherwise 19 publicly-reachable
services with `dns_type="none"` would lose monitoring.
Set external_monitor=false on family (grampsweb) and mladost3 (reverse-proxy)
to match the other two already-flagged services. Delete the r730 ingress
module entirely — the Dell server has been decommissioned.